You don't have to have all the answers.
Loving someone with Alcohol Use Disorder can feel overwhelming. We're here to help you take the next step — one conversation, one decision, one day at a time.
1. Start the Conversation
Lead With Compassion
Choose a calm moment when your loved one is sober.
Speak from concern — not anger, blame or shame.
Use "I" statements and listen
more than you talk.
Ask, Don't Tell
Instead of giving ultimatums, ask:
"What are you willing to do today?"
Meet them where they are, not where you wish they were.
Recovery starts with willingness.
Focus on the Next Step
Don't try to solve everything in one conversation.
Help them identify one realistic next step — whether that's talking to a doctor, learning about detox or simply agreeing to another conversation.
Before They Stop Drinking
2. Ask Your Loved One These Questions
✓ Have you ever had a withdrawal seizure?
✓ Have you ever experienced hallucinations, severe confusion, or Delirium Tremens (DTs) during withdrawal?
✓ Do you have depression, anxiety, PTSD, bipolar disorder, or another mental health condition?
✓ Do you regularly use other drugs or medications along with alcohol?
✓ Have you had thoughts of harming yourself?
✓ Do you have a seizure disorder or epilepsy?
✓ Have you been diagnosed with liver disease, cirrhosis, or fatty liver disease?
✓ Do you have heart disease or uncontrolled high blood pressure?
✓ Have you recently experienced severe dehydration or electrolyte imbalances?
If the answer is yes to any of them, it's important to speak with a healthcare provider before they stop drinking.
3. Choosing the Right Next Step
Treatment looks different for everyone. A healthcare provider can help determine the safest and most effective path forward.
Medical Detox
24/7 medical supervision to safely manage withdrawal symptoms and reduce risk of complications.
Length of time varies
Residential Treatment
Live at a treatment facility with around-the-clock support and structured care.
Typical stay: about 30 days.
Partial Hospitalization
Receive intensive daytime treatment with the ability to return home each evening.
Typical program: 7-14 days.
Outpatient Programs
Flexible treatment while continuing to live at home.
Typically meet 9-18 hours per week for about 12 weeks.
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